20 November 2009

是否年少都轻狂?

那天弟去云顶了
妈已吩咐要尽快回家
别在朋友家过夜
毕竟去的是四男一女
过后还要住在女生家?
不好不好

妈之前已觉得女生不好搞
大概时间到便摇电话给弟
谁知他们在和女生的家人吃饭逛街
(因女生家长负责此行来回)
妈愈觉奇怪
平时不逛街的孩子竟跟女生逛街
她的老性子发作了
想很远
可能我孩子被那有钱女迷上了
怎么那么爱去她家?
晚上搞不好??
且女生性格也有点??
他还挂断妈的电话

15 16岁的青春期
行差搭错的阶段
我从来没想过我弟敢作出什么
也发了个短讯催一催
可想了想
我的家族里这种例子不少
加上女生家庭背景不好
也许我妈真的很担心
我爸
他说我们这种年龄并没有想到那么远
那么现实及糟糕的结果
这点我认同

我好像也有这么一些朋友
的确把年少给轻狂去了
结果轻狂后的下场由自己收拾
伤痕累累的
打心底为他们而感觉悲哀
也期望上天会保佑他们

我想
我好像也让妈这么担心过吧
庆幸自己的叛逆期没有浪费的去叛逆
也不至于到失去控制的程度
(其实我很乖的咯)
给新一代的:
在青春期间
把洁身自爱伴在左右
父母恩挂在胸前
做个十八岁像十八岁的女孩/男孩
挥洒青春而不是挥霍青春
p/s: 我越来越像老师了....哈哈....

2 comments:

  1. if i were him, i would not receive the fon.. haha. sometimes, youngster would really love to enjoy their freedom. No offense to ur mom, as i think all mom r so. Their caring sometimes irritating. Maybe letting go is a way for youngster to learn. when u bcm a mom, not to forget my advise. Boys need freedom much more than u can imagine. The more you suppress the wilder they go. just like me. but when i am in uni, i started to bcm more obedient. coz enjoy more freedom.

    davis~

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  2. u can choose to ask him directly and then share ur kinda of thinking with him as reminder lo ...
    Actually,it is normal for him to approach a girl lo ....haha....juz remind him to behave himself ....
    有点后悔没轻狂过....muahaha...

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